Threesomes are quite an element of kinky sex, but definitely not for everyone. However, if you and your lover are into kink and fantasize of having a threesome you should go for it and spice your sex life as much as you possibly can. Sexual threesomes are not the norm in the society, but you do not need to limit yourself to the boring old missionary style for the rest of your sex-life.
Threesomes are a good way of exploring your sexuality and getting more intimate with your partner. Here are some useful tips for couples getting into the fun of a threesome for the first time. These tips will help you get the best out of your experience and keep your relationship healthy at the same time.
Set the boundaries
Being in a relationship means there are obvious boundaries whether it is a monogamous or an open-relationship. The first thing you and your partner should discuss ought to be the boundaries of what the threesome will entail and what not. This is important for both you to be at ease and comfortable to get it going. It is also essential for your emotional grounding so that no one is hurt or left feeling empty or less fulfilled. The communication of what the threesome will involve should not stop at this point, but go on even during the actual act. It is important to express yourself at every stage of the threesome and if you need to stop then do stop. However, if you need to make changes in between then this too should be done to make sure you are all flowing smoothly and fulfilling your needs.
Start with the Basics
Sexuality is quite a deep rooted element of our identities and you and your partner need to go slow and explore what suits you, what you are comfortable with and what not. Consider that feelings of jealousy are bound to emerge and one of you might enjoy the threesome than the other. You need to pace each other and observe the flow of whether it is delivering what you either had desired or planned to experience as a couple. There is no need to rush and it is best to take one step at a time.
Safety
You can never be too sure about STDs. Carry and wear protection to prevent the chance of contracting a sexually transmitted disease.
Bottom Line
Be gentle and patience, do not be selfish ad rush into getting off and leaving your partner or the third party off-the-cliff. Go with them as a team of three and work toward mutual satisfaction for all.